Category: Motivation

  • Choose Your Own Life Adventure

    Brrriiinnnggggg! The alarm clock sounds. Drat! Time to get up again. It feels like you just went to bed, barely had time for a dream that ended too soon, now you have to start another day. You stumble to the bathroom, and then to the kitchen. Half-asleep, you reach for…

  • The Boy Who Cried Wolf – Reversed!

    The Traveler The woman looked up in horror and confusion. In the distance, a boy was shouting. he sounded anguished, frightened, pitiful. “Wolf! Wolf!” he was screaming, though he was beginning to sound hoarse. The woman, traveling through the village on her way home from a long journey, looked around…

  • That Ye Be Not Judged

    “Judge not, that ye be not judged.” ~ Matthew 7:1, KJV We’ve all heard this verse. People often use it when they don’t want to be held accountable for their poor behavior. But perhaps the verse should be taken exactly the way it was written. It’s common sense. If you…

  • Following Your Self-Image (whether you mean to or not)

    Who are you? “I’m a healthy, intelligent capable teacher who will change the lives of the students I teach.” “I’m no good. I’m not talented, I’m not pretty, and I’m not very good at my job.” Which person will do something productive today? Which person will limp along unhappily, not…

  • Agency… Not Control

    Farmer Joe wanted his crops to grow. He planted seeds. He watered them. He fertilized them. He weeded them. He waited patiently. There was a good chance that Farmer Joe would produce a good crop that year. Did he? Was success guaranteed? You Can’t Guarantee Success Farmer Joe can do…

  • Winston Churchill Got Back Up!

    In February 1915, Winston Churchill helped to lead a campaign that cost 214,000 lives. 214,000 lives! He resigned from the government. How does a person keep going after such a catastrophic failure? I personally can’t imagine how I could ever recover from such a catastrophic failure. I’ve made a lot…

  • Do It Badly!

    Got a dream but can’t make it happen? Can’t even get started? Perfectionism could be the problem. Perfectionism causes anxiety that can be downright paralyzing. I’ve had many symptoms of perfectionism since I can remember. This doesn’t mean that I do everything perfectly. This means that if I’m afraid I…

  • Letting People Misunderstand

    WOW. This is a hard one for me. I Want To Be Understood There is someone in my life whose approval I want. Whose understanding I want. Whose support and affirmation I want. I won’t be getting it. Ever. I know this… and yet I still try. And try. I’ve…

  • Clutter, Clutter Everywhere

    “Clutter on the desk, clutter in the mind.” A friend said that over 20 years ago, and I still remember it. I have a lot of clutter on my desk. And in my room. And in my kitchen. And around the whole house. And it does seem to be a…

  • What Helped When I Was Depressed

    Finding Temporary Relief Even during the worst of my depression, there were moments when I felt a little better.  Three things helped. 1. Focusing on the present moment When I was depressed, my mind very much wanted to think deep thoughts. All. The. Time. There’s nothing wrong with thinking deep…